This is your cross. You don’t have to like it, but you have to carry it. Besides, if you like it, it isn’t much of a cross to begin with.
If veiling is absolutely good for all women, and not veiling is absolutely bad, then Jesus would NOT allow the Church to make it an option. Women who veil are not necessarily holier than the women who don’t veil. A woman who does not veil COULD be holier than a woman who does.
Ask and you shall receive, but we all know that sometimes we ask but do not receive. People of faith must use these times as a chance to examine how and why we ask.